As I mentioned in my article Confidence in itself, to obtain what one sets out in the life it is essential to have great confidence in itself. We know that " the confidence in itself is the first secret of xito" and that is necessary to achieve the success and the happiness. With confidence in itself one will be able to take the opportunities that to us the life presents/displays. The confidence in itself is something that is acquired and that becomes a habit. With confidence in itself it is possible to be obtained what other people can think that it is impossible to realise. With confidence in itself the responsibility by its own actions is accepted, has a sensible attitude, is flexible before the actions of other people, accepts the change like something normal in the life, is acted without considering the opinions of third parties. The opinions of third parties, often in some people, influence the dreams somehow that are had, the goals that have paid attention, the action plans that settle down to make specific an idea and also self-esteem.
Surely we know certain people whom they like to ask the opinion several people on some decision which they wish to take. There is a history that I read years ago that he hit on the opinions or critics to me of third parties. Recently it I have returned to read thanks to an email sent by a friend and like he is very pertinent to the subject that I am treating desire to share it with you. It is the history of the Family and the donkey. There was once a marriage with a son of twelve years and a donkey; that they decided to travel, to work and to know the world. Thus, the three with their donkey went away. When happening through the first town, people commented: " That educated boy watches badly; it arrives of the donkey and the poor parents, already great, taking it of riendas".